Conference Weekend

As per usual, we headed up to the Cookout lodge for conference weekend. It was a short weekend getaway but we honestly love going up there and spending whatever time we can with some of our best friends. We took off after the Saturday afternoon session and made it in time for the boys to head to priesthood while us girls relaxed. On Sunday we got up ate breakfast, enjoyed conference then headed over to Pineview to do a little nature exploring. Later that night Maddie took some much needed family pictures of Grant, Davis and I and they turned out better then I even expected! Prepare for picture overload!

A Blessed Boy

On August 10, 2014 Grant blessed Davis in our ward. Grant gave such a sweet blessing and all over again I realized how blessed I am to have the gospel in my life, marriage and family. It really makes life so much better. We were lucky enough to have our dads, brothers, brothers in law, Grant's Grandpa Williams, Weston Sill, Derrick Hendry, and Jordan Hill in the circle with Grant.

After the blessing we had just immediate family and a few close friends come over for pulled pork sandwiches and other delicious food. I am amazed at the support we constantly receive from family and friends and am so grateful for the relationships we have developed over the years. Davis is one lucky boy to have such wonderful people surround him.

Overall it was such a great day. It was low key but just the way we wanted it.

Where did the time go?

How is it even possible that our little Davis is 3 months old already? I wanted to journal each month so I could remember what each phase was like, apparently that isn't going to happen. So here is a list of things Davis does that I love and always want to remember.

I love the way he gives me the biggest smile when I go and get him out of his crib in the morning. It honestly melts me in a way I didn't know was possible.

I love his dimply thighs and how he is just my little chunk.

He absolutely loves his play mat. Best part is every time I put him on it, he turns his body and positions himself so he can kick the pole over and over.

He has this funny way of "yelling" at Grant and I. He isn't angry just wants to talk really loud and wants to make sure we haven't forgotten about him. Each morning we hear him in his crib just yelling as if he is trying to tell us he is ready to start his day.

He LOVES bath time. When he is in the tub he kicks his legs and pumps his arms so that his body will swish back and forth in the water. Seriously the funniest thing to watch!

His favorite game right now is "mommys gonna get ya" and guaranteed I can get him to laugh every time. And let's not even get started on how cute his laugh is! Pretty sure it kills me inside.

I go to aerobics at my ward every MWF. He gets to tag a long and his favorite part is when he gets to sit on my stomach while I do sit ups. It always results in the biggest smile.

Every time I am feeding him, he has to find something to hold. Whether it be my hair, shirt or his blanket, he always has to be holding something.

He has an obsession with his thumb and pointer finger. He is always sucking on those 2 fingers and it is adorable.

Being his mom is honestly the best thing in the world. I had heard what being a mom was like but until you experience it, you can't quite comprehend how amazingly tired, wonderful and rewarding it is. He keeps me on my toes and is only 3 months old. Am I in trouble? He is almost rolling over and I know that once he is mobile my life will just continuously get busier and busier. I cannot believe how fast they change and grow up. It really isn't fair. 

Davis Grant Butters

In all honesty, I'm not even sure how to go about writing this. Bringing Davis into the world is a day I honestly never want to forget. I had heard many times that it was a spiritual experience but until you go through it, you don't quite understand.
I was a few days overdue and my Dr was determined to get this baby out before he had to induce me. I went in and got my membranes stripped a few times throughout the week hoping it would kick start labor. Well finally on Sunday June 8th, we were in church when my contractions decided to pick up again. They had been steady the night before and right before we were about to head to the hospital, they stopped. After church we headed out for an afternoon walk in hopes of getting my contractions closer together and it worked! Once they were 3-5 minutes apart for about an hour and a half we decided to head to the hospital. When we got there, the nurses took me back, hooked me up and we were relieved when they said I was in active labor and would having a baby! Grant and I got settled in at about 3:30 pm. I got my epidural at about 5:30 and my Dr. was in to break my water at 6:30. I was dilated to a 4 and I was assuming it was going to be a very long night. They came back and checked me at 8:30 and I was still a 4 so they started me on pitocin..At about 9:30 I was in a lot of pain. My epidural didn't seem to be working and I was having a contraction that wasn't stopping. After about 15 minutes of pain and one really long contraction I called in my nurse. My body had kicked into full blown labor on its own again and the pitocin was making my contractions come double time. Since I was having one steady contraction my epidural couldn't keep up and I was feeling everything.  At this point I was at a 7. They decided to stop my pitocin and let my body do the rest of the work. We got my epidural up and running again and I was able to relax a little. At about 11 they came in and I was now dilated to 9 1/2 and they decided to call my Dr. He got there about 11:30 and by 11:40 I started pushing. After just a short 35 minutes Davis entered the world. They placed him on my chest and I couldn't hold back the tears and emotions. It was the most amazing moment. To finally be holding my baby and have my husband by my side.

Our weekend

So unless our little guy is extremely stubborn, which really might be the case, this past weekend was our last one childless. It was kind of an odd feeling. Grant and I decided to just spend a relaxing weekend together really enjoying each other's company. On Friday, I went to Grant's softball game then we headed to dinner, got smoothies and walked down Main Street in Bountiful. I cannot even begin to express how much I love spending time with Grant and how simple moments with him make me happy. On Saturday we of course spent it cleaning and doing yard work. A must before baby butters decides to join us! But after we grabbed some lunch and came home and just enjoyed time with one another. We have a routine of a nightly walk and after we decided to lay a blanket in our backyard, star gaze and talk about life. We reminisced about our first years of marriage, discussed our future and decided that life is nothing like we thought it would be but it is just how it is supposed to be.

I know Grant will never read this but I just need to express my gratitude towards him for being the man that he is. I feel like his goal in life is to make me happy day in and day out and I will genuinely say that he does just that. He is one amazing husband and I know that our little boy is sure a lucky one to get Grant as his dad. The giddiness Grant shows when he talks to our son honestly makes my heart burst. I am so grateful for the opportunity to embark on this parenthood adventure with Grant. Of course we are nervous but I do believe that together we can figure it out.

Bump Update: 40 Weeks

Well tomorrow is my due date. A part of me feels like I just started this adventure of pregnancy but the other part of me can't even remember what it was like to have a flat stomach! I am just so ready for him to come out and am losing all of my patience I once had. Anyway, here is my last bump update!

How Far Along: 36 weeks! I have 29 days left and am so excited! I can officially say next month but am secretly crossing my fingers hoping for this month!

Size of baby:  7 1/2 lbs and 20 inches long!  The size of a pumpkin!

Total weight gained/lost:  Not quite sure. These last few weeks I have really swelled up so I am positive I have some serious water weight!

Maternity Clothes: absolutely. 

Gender:  Still a boy!

Movement: He is head down but his bum is always sticking out on my left side and he is always kicking me on  my right side. He has slowed down tremendously the last few days.

Sleep: Still struggling with the sleep thing. Wake up for the bathroom, switch sides and am waking up way early every day.

Symptoms: Dilated to a 1 and 50% effaced at my 39 week appt. I have had contractions but they aren't consistent.

What I miss:  Sleeping comfortably and normal clothes. I really really miss normal clothes. Being able to move.

Cravings: Nothing special. Just very ready for a summer bbq.

Best Moment this week:  Reaching my due date. Knowing that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

What I am looking forward to: Oddly enough, labor and delivery. I know that it is not going to be easy but I have heard when you hold your baby for the first time it is just suddenly all worth it. I can't wait to hold him in my arms and kiss on him!

Bump Update Week 36

How Far Along: 36 weeks! I have 29 days left and am so excited! I can officially say next month but am secretly crossing my fingers hoping for this month!

Size of baby:  6 lbs and 18 1/2 inches long! 

Total weight gained/lost:  Honestly I am not sure but I think im close to 25 now. I have swelled up like a balloon this last week! Water weight..

Maternity Clothes: absolutely. 

Gender:  Still a boy!

Movement: He is head down but his bum is always sticking out on my left side and he is always kicking me on  my right side.

Sleep: I wake up a few times each night just because I am uncomfortable and I am back to the whole getting up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom routine..I also have been waking up way early.. not sure why my body is doing that.

Symptoms: I think I have the waddle now.. he is so low and I have braxton hicks constantly.

What I miss:  Sleeping comfortably and normal clothes. I really really miss normal clothes.

Cravings: Nothing special. Just very ready for a summer bbq.

Best Moment this week:  Celebrating with family, friends and my ward. all showers were simply amazing and so appreciated. Also got the nursery pretty much put together and made the cutest carseat cover. I am very ready! Just need to pack a hospital bag for the family!

What I am looking forward to: Meeting my little guy.  I am so ready to see what he looks like.